Monday, March 31, 2014

Objective 1 : Avoid Guilty feeling



Avoid Guilty Feeling
Avoid Guilty Feeling


Move on with your life :
   Don't dwell on negative, guilty feelings; they lead to inappropriate levels of shame and self-loathing. Recognize that nobody's perfect and we all make mistakes, and this is one you will not repeat. Engage in activities that are positive and affirming, and where you have opportunities to do good; allow yourself to see how the same mistake that made you feel guilty has now resulted in your being a better, more conscientious person.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

True Lines...

Ek joker ne logo ko 1 joke sunaya to sub log bahot hase,
Usne wahi joke dobara sunaya to kam log hase.
Us ne wahi joke fir se sunaya to koi bhi nahi hasa.
To phir usne 1 bohat pyari baat boli:
   "Agar aap 1 khushi ko le kar baarbaar nahi khush ho sakte to phir.
    ek GHAM ko le kar baar baar rote kyu ho?

A Story of a Woodcutter...

   Once upon a time, a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant and he got it. The pay was really good and so was the work condition. For those reasons, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.
   His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he supposed to work.
   The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees.
   “Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”
   Very motivated by the boss words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only bring 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only bring 10 trees. Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.
   “I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.
   “When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.
   “Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”

   What's the Reflection of this story?
   Our lives are like that. We sometimes get so busy that we don’t take time to sharpen the “axe”. In today’s world, it seems that everyone is busier than ever, but less happy that ever.
    Why is that? Could it be that we have forgotten how to stay “sharp”? There’s nothing wrong with activity and hard work. But we should not get so busy that we neglect the truly important things in life, like our personal life, taking time to get close to our Creator, giving more time for our family, taking time to read etc.

    We all need time to relax, to think and meditate, to learn and grow. If we don’t take the time to sharpen the “axe”, we will become dull and lose our effectiveness.